So following the logic, I'd rather people didn't label me - I'll decide what and who I am, and I am P. A single letter - nobody's going to mis-spell it, nobody's going to start deciding for me what national identity I have, and it's so simple - which allows me to add whatever I want to it. ThatP, HornyP, BusyP, TiredP, BoredP, Jet-SettingP… They're all true, but they're all just a part of me.

For those of you who are curious, I'm European - but am greatly influenced by things from everywhere - if I could ditch my passports for a global one, I would. Most of the people in the country in which I livedon't seem to like that answer. I am what I choose to be, and I choose to be a citizen of the world. Yes it's clichéd, but it also happens to be true.

I recently sent out a fun little questionnaire to some friends and some readers of ThatP to see what they knew & thought of me… Here are their answers so far - with a few of my answers too:

1. My name:
Phillip
That P! Paul?
could it be Peter?
Pierre
Plus three correct answer - which I'm not disclosing.

3. Take a stab at my middle name:
I wouldn't even dare
James
Hilda
Ebeneezer
Edward
Pierre(?!?)
i don't think you have one
P: I do - I hate it. Nobody knows it. It's as if it didn't exist. It's not on my driving licence.

4. How long have you known me or the site?
four years?
About 2 months
7 months
It seems like since the beginning of time...
18 months
just over a year
12 months

5. How well do you know me?
not well enough
Getting to know you through your diary, you are a kind hearted person and very good looking.
Separated at birth!!
Not nearly as well as I'd like to ;-)
Only as well as your diary allows which, adding your coming out story, is quite a bit.
LOL - you publish your diary.
Better than your readership.

6. Do I smoke?:
No
No
you do
I'm not sure , never had the chance to fuck you
Only when under stress
Yes
no
P: That really surprised me - I've mentioned about half a dozen times that I'm asthmatic - so the answer's no. Having said that, I'm open to the idea of having a splif.

7. Do I believe in God?:
don't know
MMM... Yes.
No
No
No, unless Narcissus is a god?
Maybe, but not the 'fire and brimstone' version
definately NO
P: Absolutely not. I'm a devout Atheist. Humanity invented god, humanity invented religion.

8. When you first saw me (or the site) what was your impression?:
God, he's cute - and sexy!
HORNY! I liked you and the site.
Bit of alright... but I had been on the vodka redbulls
Your beautiful eyes...
A vital and courageous young man who pushed his envelope to the limits.
Fake contacts/fun guy
P: I can't remember what I thought when I saw myself for the first time - but when I saw myself for the first time this morning is thought "Oh god - why do I look like this in the mornings?"

9. My age?:
20 - 40ish
Four correct answers: 25

10. Birthday?:
One correct answer: The eve of US Independence Day :-)
have to admit, I don't remember
Guessing here! March 5th
August
oh with out looking up my outlook calendar, i'd say May
P: July

11. Colour hair?
it changes
Blonde
Is it out of a bottle?
Variable. But I love it when it's streaked blonde...
Brown
Highly variable
blonde
All answers were correct:

12. Colour eyes:
don't remember
Blue
Green
Varying shades of blue (and totally enchanting!)
Blue
Highly variable
blue, thought the depth of blue depends on wether ur wearing contact lenses
P: I'm colour blind, so have to rely on what others have said. I've heard they're blue, grey, green, blue-grey… with the last being what I hear the most often when I'm not wearing my blue contact lenses.

13. Do I have any siblings?:
NO! But I would have your babies for you!
One sister?
one brother
one brother
older brother
yup, 1, charles
P: Yes, one brother.

14. Have you ever had a crush on me?
P: We'll pass on that one shall we….

15. What's one of my favourite things to do?:
drag
Making love?!
creating unnecessary stress for yourself (that's my medical opinion)
Writing (without using a British spell-check!)
Writing and enjoying good
food, good wine and good sex
Go to the sauna in Liverpool St./play with your homepage
work on your website
P: I like all the things mentioned above… Favourite? Gosh, writing?

16. Do you remember one of the 1st things I said (or wrote) to you?:
"Would you like a guided tour of my bedroom?"
Hi!
"Hi, I'm P."
hi, sorry i'm late.....lol
stop! you've just stolen my wallet
'Who the fuck are you?' - or words to that effect.
P: Those last two are completely made up!

17. What's my favourite type of music?:
don't know
Pop
Dance
It varies with your moods.
Pop
Cheesy Daance!
wide and varied i guess
P: Hmmm, if it's happy and commercial I generally love it. If it's sad, angry or heavy then I won't go anywhere near it.

18. What is the best feature about me?:
honesty
Your looks!
openness, personality
Your beautiful eyes! No, that's shallow - it's your honest and open
personality, honey..
Your frankness
Sincerity (although I could list more)
honesty, and a lovely smile
P: I'm really touched by those - I would hope that the best thing about me is my honesty and openness.

19. Am I shy or outgoing?:
outgoing
I think so, yes
A bit shy I would say.
definitly outgoing
Deceptively shy
Outgoing
balanced mixture of both
P: It depends. I'm outgoing, but also insecure about certain things.

21. Am I a rebel or do I follow all the rules?
:rebel with a conscience
A bit of both I would say
I think you want to be a rebel but you're still bound by convention
You're quite conventional, really. But very self-critical, and rather
emotional.
A rebel, at least superficially.
Err on the side of rebel, but not recklessness
rebel when needed, the rest of the time follow what you believe to be correct
P: Emm. I don't follow any rules I don't like - but then some rules suit me just fine.

22. Any special talents?:
looking sexy
Love that one you do with you willy! Only joking! You are good friend.
Languages
Intellectual honesty.
A sharp mind, easy to form a quick reply in a challenging situation.
writing
Numerous
P: I'm very dedicated - but sadly that's also my biggest fault.

23. Would you consider me a friend?:
I wish I could
Of course
Yes I would
not really, then again you never phone, you never write......
I wish I could.
A friendship needs a more intimate knowledge than is possible over the net. However, I consider you to be a friendly person and worthy of 'friendship'.
lol.... i dont know how to answer this one
P: I can't comment - depends on the person.

24. Would you call me preppy, slutty, a homie, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam, nerdy, snobby, or something else?:
Never thought of you in any of those terms
Home Boy with a slightly shy side, but somewhat outgoing.
something else
tarty with a hint of glam
Definitely glam!!!
The current meaning of these terms in your society would not be well understood by me. I think that would not 'suffer fools gladly'.
Depends on your mood. Though I would completely discount "preppy, homie, average, sporty, hippie"
P: What's a homie? What a stupid list - who came up with this suvery anyway? (Not me! I just forwarded it!)

25. Have you ever seen me cry?:
no
no
no
no but then like I said I've never had the chance to.........
No, but I've felt it
No, but I think that you could be overwhelmed by emotions so as to cry
P: I cry regularly, but sometimes I don't cry when I would have expected to.

26. If there were one good nickname for me what would it be?:
let me think...
Stud Muffin!
Happy or is that Sleazy?
Oh, it has to be sexyP ! <g>
Pip
ThatP
erm, well it cant be anything other than thatP really
P: I've dedicated a whole site to my nickname...

27. What do I love?
Men
Yourself? (There, that's being frank! <g>)
A good image.
Life
family/ur website/friends/mobile phone
P: I love hugging and being hugged. I love lying in the sun. I love drinking cold white wine in a super hot bath. I love waking up and not having to get up. I love seeing people smile. I love realising how lucky I am, I love food, I love it when I make people smile, I love loving.