Hey P, What I mean is that I'm so GLAD to have found your storey on the web. It helped me out alot. Thanks!I'm UNDECIDED with regards to when or if I ever will come out. I'm 20 and still living in fear and shame. This is my first attempt to help myself by sending this message. I think its easy to write to you because I feel that I know you from reading your storey. Thanks Again, Aaron Canada