well, I've just been crying (as I usually do) cos I thot the coming out story was really touching I know that's a cheesy thing to say but it's true! I also think it's incredibly positive because despite all the difficulties you have managed really well and made a hell of a lot of really good choices. I have to be stuck up and say 'I-had-it-harder' but then every gay guy had it worst than you right? Good luck with your life, you've done well so far! take care